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How to write so the conversation actually goes somewhere.
No pickup lines and no theory. Real situations from dating apps, example messages, and why one of them works and the other does not.
8 min read
She stopped replying on Tinder — what to do
The thread died after a few good exchanges. One follow-up message works; everything else makes it worse.
8 min read
How to reply to 'hey' on Tinder
She matched you, then sent one word. The reply that works treats 'hey' as an empty field, not a test, and puts a subject in it she can actually hold on to.
9 min read
Tinder vs Bumble: which is better for guys
The honest answer is that neither app is better. The difference is in what each one asks of you, and most men get both wrong in the same way.
7 min read
What to say on Bumble when she messages first
Bumble puts the first message on her, and most men send back something that kills the thread. Here's what to reply when she's opened with 'hey' or a wave.
7 min read
What to say to a girl on a dating app
The first message decides whether she replies. Here's what works when you've matched and the blank box is staring back at you.
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